It doesn't matter how tough we are. Trauma always
leaves a scar. it follows us home, it changes our lives. Trauma messes
everybody up. But maybe that's the point. All the pain and the fear and the
crap. Maybe going through all that is what keeps us moving forward. It's what
pushes us. Maybe we have to get a little messed up. Before we can step up.
-Grey’s
Anatomy